A courtesan of Vesáli.
She is said to have come spontaneously into being at Vesáli in the gardens of the king. The gardener found her at the foot of a mango tree - hence her name - and brought her to the city. She grew up so full of beauty and of grace that many young princes vied with each other for the honour of her hand. Finally, in order to end their strife, they appointed her courtesan. Later she became a devout follower of the Buddha, and building a vihára in her own garden, gave it to him and the Order. This was during the Buddha's last visit to Vesáli shortly before his death. It is said that when Ambapálí heard of the Buddha's visit to Kotigáma near Vesáli she and her retinue drove out of the city in magnificent chariots to meet him, and, after hearing a discourse, invited him and the monks to a meal the next day. The Buddha accepted this invitation and had, as a result, to refuse that of the Licchavis of Vesáli.
While returning from her visit to the Buddha, Ambapálí was so elated at the idea of having the Buddha to a meal the next day, that she refused to make way for the Licchavi princes who were on their way to the Buddha. She refused to give up her invitation for anything in the world. The DA. says that just before Ambapálí's visit to him, the Buddha admonished the monks to be steadfast and mindful, lest they should lose their heads about her (DA.ii.545).
It was after this meal that Ambapálí gave over her park, the Ambapálivana, to the Buddha and the Order. The Buddha accepted the gift and stayed there some time before going on to Beluva. Vin.i.231-3; D.ii.95-8; the two accounts vary in details, e.g. in the Digha version the Buddha was already in Ambapálivana, and not in Kotigáma, when the courtesan visited him.
Ambapálí had a son, Vimala-Kondańńa, who was an eminent Elder. Having heard him preach one day, she renounced the world and, working for insight by studying the law of impermanence as illustrated in her own ageing body, she attained arahantship (ThigA.206-7).
Nineteen verses ascribed to her are found in the Therígáthá (252-70).
In the time of Sikhí Buddha she had entered the Order. While yet a novice, she took part in a procession of Bhikkhunís, and was doing homage at a shrine when an arahant Therí in front of her hastily spat in the court of the shrine. Seeing the spittle and not knowing who had committed the fault, she said in reproof, "What prostitute has been spitting here?" It was owing to this remark that she was born as a courtesan in her last birth (ThigA.206-7).
The Apadána (quoted also in ThigA) gives some more details about her. She had been a daughter of a Khattiya family in the time of Phussa Buddha and had done many good deeds in order to be beautiful in later births. As a result of the abuse of the nun (referred to above) she had been born in hell and later had, for ten thousand lives, been a courtesan. In Kassapa Buddha's time she had practised celibacy (Ap.ii.613ff. ; ThigA.213f).
It is said that she charged fifty kahápanas a night from her patrons and that Vesáli became very prosperous through her. It was this that prompted Bimbisára to get a courtesan for his own city of Rájagaha (Vin.i.268).
Among Ambapálí's patrons was Bimbisára, and he was the father of her son Vimala-Kondańńa (ThagA.i.146).
In the Theragáthá (vv.1020-21; ThagA.ii.129) there are two verses which, according to tradition, were spoken by Ananda in admonition of monks who lost their heads at the sight of Ambapálí. Whether this was before or after she joined the Order we are not told.