Part IV
Sobhana Cetasikas
Chapter 29
Non-Aversion (adosa)
Part IV
Sobhana Cetasikas
Chapter 29
Non-Aversion (adosa)
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Non-aversion or non-hate, is one of the three sobhana hetus, beautiful roots. As we have seen, each sobhana citta is rooted in non-attachment and non-aversion, and it may or may not be rooted in Wisdom. We may notice it when we have aversion, dosa, but we may not know the characteristic of non-aversion, adosa, We dislike having aversion because it is always accompanied by unpleasant feeling. When the aversion is gone we may think that there is non-aversion but is that so? At this moment there may not be aversion but can we be sure that there is non-aversion. which accompanies kusala citta? There may be attachment to visible object and then there cannot be non-aversion at the same time. Whenever there is non-aversion there has to be non-attachment, alobha, as well and several other sobhana cetasikas which each perform their own function while they assist the kusala citta. Adosa can be translated as non-aversion or non-hate, but there are many forms and degrees of it, loving kindness, metta, is a form of adosa which is directed towards living beings. Adosa can also be non-aversion with regard to an object which is not a being and then it can be described as patience. There can be non-aversion or patience with regard to heat, cold, bodily pain or other unpleasant objects. The Atthasalini (I, Book I, Part IV, Chapter 1, 127) defines non-aversion, adosa, as follows: ... Absence of hate has the characteristic of freedom from churlishness or resentment, like an agreeable friend; the function of destroying vexation, or dispelling distress, like sandalwood: the manifestation of being pleasing, like the full moon...The Visuddhimagga (XIV, 143) gives a similar definition (1 See also Dhammasangani 33). Non-aversion has the characteristic of freedom from savagery or violence, it is gentle like a good friend, We may see the difference between aversion and non-aversion when they appear in our daily life, We may be very annoyed about someone or something, but when we see the disadvantage of aversion there are conditions for patience. At that moment all the harshness which characterizes aversion has gone and there is gentleness instead. There is no self who is patient and gentle, but it is the cetasika non-aversion, adosa. The function of non-aversion is the removing of annoyance or vexation and non-aversion is compared to sandalwood which has a very agreeable odour and is said to cure fever. When there is aversion we are vexed and annoyed; we burn with the fever of hate and we may become uncontrolled, we may not know what we are doing. Aversion is like a fire, it is hard to extinguish. However, when non-aversion arises we are cured of the fever of aversion, all annoyance has gone. Both aversion and non-aversion influence our bodily disposition. We read in the Atthasalini (I, Book I, Part IV, Chapter I, 129) : ... Absence of hate is the cause of youthfulness, for the man of no hate, not being burnt by the fire of hate, which brings wrinkles and grey hairs, remains young for a long time...The Atthasalini states that the manifestation of non-aversion is agreeableness like the full moon. Non-aversion is agreeable both for oneself and for others, it conduces to harmonious living among people. Through aversion or hate a person loses his friends, and through non-aversion he acquires friends. We read in the same section of the Atthasalini (129): ... Absence of hate is the cause of the production of friends, for through love friends are obtained, not lost...Non-aversion accompanies each kusala citta, it performs its function of destroying vexation while we apply ourselves to dana, observe sila, develop calm or insight. Dana is an act of kindness. When we are giving a gift with kusala citta we show kindness. When there is non-aversion there must also be non-attachment which performs its function of detachment from the object. When we observe sila there is non-aversion accompanying the kusala citta. When we abstain from akusala kamma which harms both ourselves and others we show an act of kindness. The Atthasalini (in the same section) states: Good-will is that which does not ruin one's own or another's bodily or mental happiness, worldly or future advantage and good report.The Buddha reminded the monks to show acts of kindness to one another, both privately and in public and this is to be applied by laypeople as well. When there is true kindness it appears in our manners and speech. When someone else speaks harshly to us it is difficult not to have aversion and retort his speech with angry words, We are attached to pleasant objects and when there is an unpleasant object our attachment conditions aversion. When we see the ugliness of aversion and its disadvantages there are conditions to refrain from harsh speech. When we have aversion on account of what other people are doing or saying we forget to be mindful of our own cittas. When there it mindfulness it prevents us from wrong speech and then there is also non-aversion which removes vexation. We read in the Kindred Sayings (I, Sagatha-vagga, Chapter XI, Sakka Suttas, I, 4) that Sakka, ruler of the gods, was reviled by Vepacitti, an Asura (a demon). Sakka explained to Matali, the charioteer, that it was not because of weakness that he showed forbearance. He praised patience and forbearance and he said: ... Worse of the two is he who, when reviled,There are many opportunities for being impatient with people We may be irritated about someone's faults and mistakes, about his way of speech or his appearance. We may be irritated because someone moves slowly and is in our way when we are in a hurry Most of the time we are concerned about ourselves but not about someone else. When we find ourselves important aversion can arise very easily and then there is no kindness. Selfishness and lack of consideration for others stands in the way of kindness. When there are conditions for kindness and patience there is peace of mind and then we can see the difference between kindness and the harsh moments of aversion. Kindness, metal, is a form of adosa which is directed towards living beings. Patience, as we have seen, is another aspect of adosa. There can be patience with regard to beings and also with regard to objects which are not beings, thus with regard to all objects which can be experienced through the six doors. When there is aversion towards unpleasant objects there is no patience. When we have to endure hardship it may be difficult not to have aversion, but when non-aversion arises we can endure what is unpleasant. The Buddha exhorted the monks to endure unpleasant objects. We read in the Middle Length Sayings (I, no. 2, Discourse on All the Cankers) that the Buddha spoke about different ways of getting rid of the cankers and he explained that one of these ways is endurance. It is to be understood that the cankers cannot be eradicated unless right understanding is developed. We read: And what, monks, are the cankers to be got rid of by endurance? In this teaching, monks, a monk wisely reflective, is one who bears cold, heat, hunger, thirst, the touch of gadfly, mosquito, wind and sun, creeping things, ways of speech that are irksome. unwelcome: he is of a character to bear bodily fillings which, arising, are painful, acute, sharp, shooting, disagreeable, miserable, deadly. Whereas, monks, if he lacked endurance, the cankers which are destructive and consuming might arise. But because he endures, therefore these cankers which are destructive and consuming are not. These, monks. are called the cankers to be got rid of by endurance.When we feel sick or when we experience another unpleasant object through one of the senses we may feel sorry for ourselves and complain about it. We give in to aversion and we are apt to put off the development of kusala until we are in more favourable conditions. Then we overlook the opportunity for the development of kusala which he right at hand: when there are unpleasant objects there is an opportunity to cultivate patience. We all are bound to suffer from hunger and thirst, heat and cold; these things occur in our daily life time and again. The experience of an unpleasant object through one of the senses is vipaka, the result of kamma, and we cannot avoid vipaka. After the moments of vipaka have fallen away, there are kusala cittas or akusala cittas, depending on whether there is "wise attention" or "unwise attention" to the object. If we see the benefit of patience in all circumstances there are conditions for non-aversion instead of aversion. One of the hardest things to endure is the separation from those who are dear to us. We read in the Gradual Sayings (IV, Book of the Sevens, chapter V, $ 10) about Nanda's mother, an anagami, who had through the development of right understanding eradicated aversion. After she had offered dana to the monks with Sariputta and Moggallana at their head she testified to Sariputta about marvellous things which had happened to her We read: "... Rajahs, for some reason, took by force and slew my only son, Nanda, who was dear and precious to me; yet when the boy was seized or being seized. bound or being bound, slain or being slain. I knew no disquietness of heart."Nanda's mother then spoke about her purity of sila, her attainment of the different stages of jhana, and she declared that she had eradicated the "five lower fetters". These fetters are eradicated at the attainment of the state of anagami. The anagami or "non-returner", who has attained the third state of enlightenment, has no more attachment to sensuous objects and thus, when there is an unpleasant object instead of a pleasant object, he has no conditions for aversion. Nanda's mother who was an anagami, had no sadness, fear or anxiety, no matter what happened to her. If we understand that attachment to people can lead to utter distress when we lose them, we may see the danger of attachment, and then we can be reminded to develop right understanding which leads to the eradication of all defilements. In the development of right understanding patience has to be applied. When there are many moments of akusala citta we should have patience to be mindful even of akusala citta. When there is aversion we may be annoyed about it, or we may take it for my aversion". When there is mindfulness of aversion it can be known as only a type of nama which has arisen because of its appropriate conditions. At the moment of mindfulness there is non-aversion, adosa, instead of aversion, dosa. Loving kindness, metta, is, as we have seen, a form of adosa which is in particular directed towards living beings. The Visuddhimagga (Chapter lX, 93) gives, apart from the definition of non-aversion, a definition of loving kindness or metta : As to characteristic, etc., loving kindness is characterized here as promoting the aspect of welfare. Its function is to prefer welfare. It is manifested as the removal of annoyance. lts proximate cause is seeing lovableness in beings. It succeeds when it makes ill-will subside, and it fails when it produces (selfish) affection.Loving kindness can arise with right understanding or without it. Someone may be kind to others because he has accumulated kindness, but there may not be right understanding. If there is right understanding of the characteristic of loving kindness it can be developed. It can be developed as a subject of samatha, but one cannot succeed if one does not practise it in daily fife. The "near enemy" of loving kindness is selfish affection, attachment. Attachment tends to arise very closely after moments of loving kindness but we may not notice this. We should find out whether we want to be kind only to people we particularly Like, or whether we are kind to whomever we meet, because we are truly concerned for his welfare. From our own experience we can learn to see the difference between loving kindness and selfish affection. If we are attached to someone we will miss him when he is no longer with us; attachment conditions aversion. When there is loving kindness we do not think of our own enjoyment in someone's company. When loving kindness arises, there is detachment, alobha, and also equanimity or impartiality (tattramajjhattata). When we are giving a gift to someone or when we are helping someone, there may be pleasant feeling. However, instead of pure loving kindness there can be attachment. We should remember that pleasant feeling can arise with kusala citta as well as with citta rooted in attachment. We find pleasant feeling very important and we tend to think that it is kusala all the time, but we can easily be misled by pleasant feeling. When loving kindness arises there is not necessarily pleasant feeling all the time. Kusala citta can be accompanied by pleasant feeling or by indifferent feeling. The Visuddhimagga (Chapter IX) gives advice for the application of loving kindness for someone who is inclined to give in to anger. He should review the danger in hate and the advantage of patience. A person harms himself when he is angry. When he is angry with someone he should not pay attention to the bad qualities of that person but only to his good qualities, and if he has none he should be compassionate instead of angry. That person's accumulation of akusala will bring him sorrow. We should remember that we all are "heirs" of our deeds, we will receive the results of our deeds. We could also regard the person we are angry with as five khandhas (aggregates) or as elements which are impermanent These arise and then fair away immediately and thus what is then the object we are angry with? The citta of the other person which motivated unpleasant speech or an unpleasant deed has fallen away already and thus it belongs to the past. Another way of overcoming anger is giving a gift. We can learn from experience that, when we give a gift, there are conditions for kusala citta both for the giver and the receiver. Giving and receiving mellows the heart and thus the relationship between people can be improved We could also, in order to have less anger and more loving kindness, reflect on the virtues the Bodhisatta accumulated. We read in the Visuddhimagga (IX, 26) about the way of reviewing these: ... is it not the fact that when your Master was a Bodhisatta before discovering full enlightenment, while he was still engaged in fulfilling the Perfections during the four incalculable ages and a hundred thousand aeons. he did not allow hate to corrupt his mind even when his enemies tried to murder him on various occasions? For example, in the Silavant Birth Story (Jatakas I, 26I ) when his friends rose to prevent his Kingdom of three hundred leagues being seized by an enemy king who had been incited by a wicked minister in whose mind his own queen had sown hate for him, he did not allow them to lift a weapon. Again when he was buried. along with a thousand companions, up to the neck in a hole dug in the earth in a charnel ground, he had no thought of hate. And when, after saving his life by a heroic effort helped by jackals scrapping away soil when they had come to devour the corpses, he went with the aid of a spirit to his own bedroom and saw his enemy lying on his own bed, he was not angry but treated him as a friend, undertaking mutual pledge, and he then exclaimed:However, only reflecting on loving-kindness is not enough, it should be practised. For example, when others talk to us we can listen to them with loving kindness. When there is more right understanding of realities there are more conditions for loving kindness in our relationship with others. When we cling to a concept of "people" we tend to be attached to an idea of having friends. We feel lonely when we are without friends. In the ultimate sense there are no friends who exist, there are only citta, cetasika and rupa, and these arise and then fall away immediately. Actually, friendship or loving kindness can arise with the citta which thinks of a being. Loving kindness can be extended to whosoever is in our company and then there is a moment of true friendship. At such a moment there is no thought of self who wants friendship from others, no feeling of loneliness or worry about the attitude of others towards us. If we consider more the reality of loving kindness instead of clinging to an idea of friendship there are more conditions for unselfish love. Loving kindness is one of the meditation subjects of samatha. Those who have accumulated conditions for the development of calm to the degree of jhana can attain jhana with this meditation subject (1 With this subject different stages of rupa-jhana can be attained ,but not the highest stage, since the jhanacittas of the highest stage (the fourth in the fourfold system and the fifth in fivefold system) are accompanied by indifferent feeling. Loving kindness can be accompanied by pleasant feeling or by indifferent feeling and thus it is not the object of the highest stage of jhana.) . Loving kindness (metta) is among the four meditation subjects which are called the " divine abidings" (brahma-viharas). The other three "divine abidings" are: compassion (karuna), sympathetic joy (mudita) and equanimity (upekkha). They are called divine abidings because they are excellent and of a "faultless nature": those who cultivate them live like the "Brahma divinities" (Atthasalini, I, Book I, Part V, Chapter XII, 195). The divine abidings are also called "Illimitables" (appamannas) because they arise in an immeasurable field, their field or object is beings without Iimits. Loving kindness, for example, can, when jhana is attained with this subject, be extended to all beings, none excepted. Loving kindness is sublime and it can be illimitable, but even the most excellent qualities are impermanent and dukkha. Without the development of right understanding good deeds, excellent virtues or even jhana cannot lead to the end of defilements. The final goal of the Buddha's teachings is the eradication of defilements and this means the end of dukkha. Through the development of fight understanding the clinging. to the self can gradually decrease, and as a consequence there will be more conditions for loving kindness and patience. One will be more inclined to help others without selfish motives. There are many degrees of non-aversion, adosa, and in the arahat non aversion has reached perfection. Those who have attained enlightenment, the ariyans, do not have wrong view of people who exist; they have realized that there are only nama and rupa, but they can still think of the concept "being". The arahat can think of "being" but he thinks of beings without any defilements Those who have eradicated defilements ate truly kind to all beings.
Questions i Why
must there be right understanding of the characteristic of loving kindness
in order to develop it as a subject of calm?
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